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SECRETS TO SUCCESS
The Definitive Career Development Guide for
New and First Generation Professionals
by
Al Coleman, Jr.
Secrets to Success:
The Definitive Career Development Guide for New and First Generation
Professionals
Special
Smashwords Edition
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Library of Congress Control Number: 2011939363
Version 2011.09.21
DEDICATIONS
Thank you Lord for providing me with the knowledge, wisdom and strength to share these truths with the world.
To my wife, I love you; thank you for allowing me to share my time, talent and treasure with others. To my children, you continue to be my inspiration. To my family and friends, thank you for your encouragement and support. To my City—Midway, Central & Grotto—We did it.
In loving memory of Alfred W. Coleman, III
SECRETS TO SUCCESS
The Definitive Career Development Guide for
New and First Generation Professionals
Required reading for any young or first generation professional that wants personal, professional and financial success, without sacrificing who you are or what you care about.
SUMMARY
Secrets to Success: The Definitive Career Development Guide for New and First Generation Professionals is required reading for any young or first generation professional in the field of law, medicine, education, business, government, non-profit, engineering, science, technology, media or mass communications, art or design, entertainment, or any of the life, physical, or social sciences.
It provides detailed guidance on how to become personally, professionally and financially successful, without sacrificing who you are and what you care about. Designed for tomorrow's leaders, it candidly emphasizes that nothing in life is new; and acknowledges that even though you can gain wisdom from your mistakes, it’s easier and less costly to learn from the mistakes of others.
In about the same time it takes to watch a movie, you’ll learn principles rarely taught to new and first generation professionals; including how to avoid losing up to $80,000 per year by graduating on time from college or a graduate program, with minimal student-loan debt. You’ll discover how to find a mentor and increase your income by up to $22,000 by doing so. And explore how to find the job of your dreams, keep it for a lifetime—if you want, and effortlessly create wealth now and for future generations. You’ll uncover all of this and more while learning how to stay healthy, happy and stress-free during the entire process.
Most Things in Life Aren’t New
Finding and Creating Work-Life Balance
MONDAY, OCTOBER 19TH, 2009
Monday, October 19th, 2009.
I don’t remember much about that day. I don’t remember what I wore. I don’t remember what I ate. I don’t remember my conversations throughout the day. I don’t remember what I did at work. All I remember is that it was Monday. I remember because I teach on Mondays.
I remember going to class and having fun with my students, and having a great class. Everything was perfect, except for the constant vibration of my phone. It rang so much that I had to take it out of my pocket during the middle of class and set it on the table in front of me, underneath the small podium, before continuing to teach.
I taught two classes that Monday; that I remember. I remember going to my second class, and lecturing like I always did. Nothing was out of the ordinary. When class ended at 7:25 pm I walked from the University buildings through the skyway tunnel to the parking garage. Along the way it dawned on me that I had messages on my phone from earlier. I pulled my phone out and saw the home screen cluttered with several missed calls, most of which were from my sister.
I decided to call her back first. I knew that if something had happened, she would give me the news without hesitation. I dialed her number and nervously awaited the voice on the other end. She picked up after several rings, as if she was preparing herself for the ensuing conversation. “Hello?” she said, and immediately started crying as she recognized my voice.
I don’t remember the words exchanged over the next twenty minutes we stayed on the phone, but I do remember these two words:
Dad’s Dead.
Those two words are the reason you’re reading this book.
Dad’s Dead.
Those two words motivated me to do what I thought was impossible.
Dad’s Dead.
Those two words are the reason I want to share everything I’ve learned with you about personal, professional and financial success.
UNFINISHED BUSINESS
My dad died at 54 years old. And even though 54 is relatively early to leave this earth, he lived a full life with few regrets. He traveled, saw the world, started and led numerous businesses, and even served in several high-profile government positions in his native country of Liberia.
His untimely demise was foreshadowed by years of illness that plagued him. He had several extended stays in hospitals throughout his final years; with some visits seeming like the end was imminent. However, he would somehow find a way to make it through. During this process I came to accept that his death would inevitably come. And through that acceptance I began attempting to preserve all of the information I could about this well-read, well-traveled, captain of industry. I was determined to ensure that all of the knowledge gained from his 54 years of life would not go to waste.
I spent many Saturday mornings visiting with him, with my son close at hand. We’d participate in his favorite pastime, commenting on cable news shows, during which I’d pepper him with questions to probe his thoughts on various issues.
A few weeks prior to his passing, I kept our weekly appointment and stopped by earlier than usual to check on him. As I walked up the stairs to his bedroom, I saw him shuffling back and forth, with my cousin Doug beside him carrying a large desktop computer in hand. My dad, as I would soon discover, was turning the guest bedroom into an office. The act itself wasn’t that odd given the many projects he started once his illness worsened. I was more puzzled by the fact that he was taking on this project given his recent return from a prolonged hospital stay. A stay that seemed to include many more tubes and monitors than recent visits.