65 Ways to Meet Women
Published by Dee Phillips at Smashwords
Copyright 2012 Dee Phillips
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65 Ways to Meet Women
It seems that in the past it was easier for nice men to meet appropriate women. All they had to do was to attend a church social to find where the women hung out. Or, in later times, they met their lifelong sweetheart in high school and got married. Today it seems to be a bit more complicated. Most women do not want to get married right out of high school. They have their own careers to think about. They don’t seem to want to be stay-at-home moms raising babies at a young age. Therefore, you are less likely to find a women to marry (or even to have a life-long relationship with) in high school.
With the changing times, you have to adapt to change your strategy for meeting women. If you are looking to have a significant relationship with a women, whether it be geared towards marriage or not, you have to know how to meet different women in order to find one that will share your likes and dislikes and be compatible with you.
But, you may be looking for women in all the wrong places. Consider that many women do not like to meet men in bars. You may be making all the right moves, have the greatest look, are nicely dressed and so on, but you keep getting fake phone numbers or polite rejections, if not point-blank refusals. Women find bars (and even some parties) settings that are connotations of wildness and sex, not a place where a meaningful relationship should start. Many women see these venues as places where men hang out to have one-night stands. With this in mind, women tend to put their defenses up. You need to go to a place where you can find a woman who is relaxed and receptive to meeting you. Consider also that when you are in a bar, the booze can taint your meeting because people are not acting as they normally would. Also the music is loud which is not conducive to getting to know one another.
You need to be able to approach women where they can get a sense of your personality, what you are really about. You need to be able to talk to them, about yourself and about her, so that you can be sure that you are both compatible with each other.
So, where do you find places where you can meet women? Rest assured, there are many of them. But first things first. You need to be prepared when you go out to try to find the right woman for you.
Here are some helpful tips (actually, they are must’s!):
* It goes without saying, cleanliness is very important. This goes for your hair, your face, your beard, your clothes and your teeth.
* Be sure your hair is clean and shining, whether you wear it long or short, and combed. Go to a stylist if necessary, to make sure your hair is trimmed properly (and your beard or mustache). Look through current hair style books (you can find them at your barber or hair-dresser’s salon) for a style that represents you and is trendy. There are many styles you can choose from, from long hair to complete baldness. Just make sure it is flattering to you. Ask your stylist to help, if necessary.