Pleasure Points
Female Orgasm Secrets: Zero to Oohhh in 4 minutes
By Venus Cummings
Copyright 2011 Venus Cummings
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Table of Contents
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Introduction
‘What’s an orgasm feel like?’ Milly’s mother writes on a piece of paper when she’s lost her voice in the movie ‘Because I said so’.
Milly is dumbfounded at the question and describes it as starting with the word ‘Amazing’ followed by shuddering hand gestures and body movements to amplify her next words - ‘like being totally out of control’ - to which her mum responds on paper that she wouldn’t like that (since she’s a total control freak). Milly reassures her that she’d like this ‘out of control’ which is ‘totally satisfying, and like you’re out of your body, but in your body and though it doesn’t sound delicious but God it’s so delicious, where your toes curl up. And like you can laugh and cry, but a good cry.’
If that’s what you get during sex now then you’ve already nailed it and you probably won’t get much outta this book.
Yet the ‘fake female orgasm’ is an endless topic of discussion and it even featured on one of my favourite TV chat shows ‘The View’ a few days ago. And boy what a bunch of views that was. The ‘feminist’ in me was all ears about things like ‘well you have to fake it, otherwise his ego gets out of whack and that’s a whole other issue to deal with’ or ‘well if I don’t fake it, he bloody goes on and on, and I just want to get it over with’.
Get it over with!
Get the greatest pleasure known to man or woman over with!
Why would you possibly want to do that – unless of course you’re not enjoying it?
In the 21st century when we women successfully juggle professional careers with motherhood and partnerships and become presidents, prime ministers, etc, there’s no excuses left to not enjoy great sex.
Since I thoroughly enjoy sex, shagging, making love (call it what you will), I guess I’ve forgotten my earlier experiences and the endless girlie chats about why it’s so hard for women to really, really enjoy sex.
My new boyfriend was totally freaked out at how easy it was for me to have quick and strong multiple orgasms. He used to joke if I could bottle that ability then I’d solve most of the world’s problems in no time flat.
This is my attempt at ‘bottling’ that.
I share with you what I’ve done, what I do, what I’m feeling and what I’m thinking to have mind blowing sex.
I’ve travelled into my own mind and body to share with you the state of mind that lets me scream through multiple, quick and strong orgasm. I hope that what I’ve learnt and share with you will fast track you to your own toe curling orgasms.
It’s not a ‘push here, prod there’ manual.
It’s me telling you where my mind’s at when I’m having great sex.
And believe me, it really is all in the mind…
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Sexual Healing
Crank up some Marvin Gaye and get into the ‘Sexual Healing’.
The first step to your sexual healing is to understand and accept as fact that the ‘Men are from Mars, women are from Venus’ statement is 100% true when it comes to sex. This Venus learned a long time ago that sex for men is a lot easier. The sight of your boobs and butt will get them going and that’s about it. Their advantage is that you clearly know they’re aroused since it’s usually pointing in your direction inviting you for some ‘playtime’. Not so for us gals. There’s little to show when we’re ripe and ready so more often than not there’s a lot of guesswork on his side, if he can be bothered.
Most of the time he can’t and he’s right in there focused on ‘getting his’.
Sexual healing happens when we get the ego out of the way and get the ‘straight talk’ happening with the sole aim of both getting the best sex we’ve ever had. Forget the game playing (unless it involves your naughtiest knickers) and forget the blaming.
Focus only on the end result– toe curling, spastic, body-out-of control orgasms as often as you want.
Even the most Neanderthal man will do the peacock strut of knowing he helped her come hard, fast and more than once. The only way that’s going to happen is if he understands it’s going to take a bit more foreplay than ‘feeling randy, babe?’ to achieve that. And it’s up to us women to educate them.
Before you start protesting with ‘why should I, he should know what I like’, ask yourself a question ‘do you even really know what YOU like?’ Have you really taken the trouble to find out? My guess is no. I know from my own experience I had to do my own exploring to find my magic places before I could guide his wand to create some magic of its own.
For him, the friction of repetitive stroking is all it’s going to take to eventually come. That can be in and out of the vagina, by hand, mouth or well, whatever goes. That’s it.
For women it’s about how and where and when to stroke. And that’s something many women aren’t familiar with in their own bodies so how can we expect a fella to know that?